How do child custody and parenting arrangements work in Victoria?
In Australia the law doesn’t use the word “custody” — it focuses on parenting arrangements and the best interests of the child. Here’s how it generally works in Victoria.
It’s about the child’s best interests
The family law system prioritises a child’s safety and wellbeing, not the parents’ wishes. Arrangements cover where a child lives and the time they spend with each parent.
You can agree without going to court
Many parents agree on arrangements themselves, or with a mediator, and formalise it in a parenting plan or consent orders. Court is a last resort.
Parenting plans vs consent orders
A parenting plan is a written agreement but isn’t legally enforceable; consent orders are approved by a court and are enforceable.
If you can’t agree
You usually must attempt family dispute resolution (mediation) before applying to court, except in urgent or family violence situations.
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